Getting a date is about more than your charm or looks.
Attracting women is not a definite science, because all women are different. To attract a girl, you have to know her likes and dislikes regarding men, hobbies, social life and professional life. All of these facets of a woman's life can influence what men she responds to and the men she ignores. In the end, being yourself and improving the areas where you may be lacking is the healthiest and surest way to attract a woman.
Instructions
1. Assess your personal strengths. Write down all of your good qualities, such as good looks, intelligence, charm or wit.
2. Assess your personal weaknesses. Write down the areas where you need improvement, such as engaging girls in conversation or dressing well.
3. Write down a plan of improvement for each weakness. If you feel that you have trouble engaging girls in conversation, make a plan to talk to five new girls on five different days and engage them in conversation that is not romantically motivated. Work on carrying a conversation about a hobby, a new music group or another area of interest to both you and the girl.
4. Reassess your improvements on each weakness. If your goal was to carry a conversation with five new girls, assess whether you were listening as much as you were talking, whether you were speaking confidently but not arrogantly and other qualities of the conversation.
5. Ask for feedback. Be honest with the girl or girls you are attracted to and tell them you are attempting to improve your weaknesses in friendships and relationships. Combine what you learn from each girl and use the advice to improve.
6. Take time for yourself. Act in ways that show you care about yourself, but not that you are overly obsessed with yourself. For example, take time to exercise, study, participate in extracurricular activities at your school and relax rather than chase girls. Girls, just like anyone else, typically want to date someone who has goals and motivations to be a better person in personal and social life.
7. Present a calm and confident demeanor. When you seem desperate for something, you are much less likely to achieve it, whether that be a goal in work or the goal to get a date with a particular girl. Show that you are interested and then wait for her to meet you halfway.
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