Monday, February 22, 2010

Teach Good Morals







An important goal for many parents is to teach their children good morals. It can be difficult to know go about this since morality is a subjective concept. What is morally good to one person may be morally bad to another. It's also important to teach the information in a way that children understand and retain. By understanding what morals are most important to you, you are more capable of passing on the message to your children.


Instructions


1. Decide what you want to use as your moral compass. Is it some type of religious doctrine or the laws set by your government? Decide which morals are important to you, and make your children aware of them. Some parents keep a large list of rules in the house, like "Be nice to others" and "Always tell the truth." Make sure to let you kids know why these specific moral guidelines are important to your family.


2. Set an example for your children by following your own moral guidelines. According to Advice For Parenting, morals are a learned behavior. Children observe your behavior from a young age, and are more likely to follow your actions than your words. If helpfulness is a moral you want your child to exemplify, then you should let your child see you volunteering in the community or help a neighbor bring in their groceries.








3. Choose books and movies for your child that highlight characters with good morals. It can help your child to have a positive role model, according to My Child Health. Dora the Explorer and Sesame Street are two examples of shows that feature characters trying to help others. Focus on the Family is a company that produces children's movies and books that put emphasis on religious morals.


4. Discuss morals with your child when he misbehaves. Let her know what she did wrong and what he could have done instead. For example, if you see your child hit another child because his toy was taken away, you should explain why sharing is important and why violence is wrong. My Child Health also advises that parents allow children to ask questions about morals, so they can better understand right from wrong.

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